The Power of Rules

Rules have been integral to human society since the beginning of time. Despite the ubiquity of regulations, almost no one seems thrilled by them, particularly young teens and children who greatly value personal freedom. Rules and regulations are undesirable for the same reasons they are beneficial, depending on whose burden. Parents have an edge, but it comes with disadvantages. They walk a thin line between love and hate that children feel towards rules and the adults who curtail their liberty. Parents can find creative ways to foster cooperation and collaboration with their children instead of demanding obedience. Human relationships should not be contingent upon rules; however, boundaries that evolve out of genuine connections between people are better observed than when imposed unilaterally. This book explains how parents and children can work together on rules in a friendly and constructive ways to make dos and don'ts more stimulating and functional for everyone.